Healing that goes deeper
About Amber, LMHC
Hi, I’m Amber Behrouzvaziri (pronounced
bay-rooz-vah-zeer-ee), but you can call me Amber.
One of the reasons I feel so deeply connected to this work is because of my own lived experiences. While therapy is always centered on you, it’s meaningful for me to bring the insight and empathy I’ve gained through my own challenges into the room—to better understand you and walk alongside you with care.
I know what it’s like to wrestle with self-doubt, relationship pain, and the urge to avoid what feels too tender or overwhelming to face. I also know how hard—and brave—it is to turn toward that discomfort in the name of healing. That’s why I have so much respect for the clients I work with. Doing this kind of inner work isn’t easy, and I never take your trust or effort for granted.
As a reformed perfectionist and natural helper (Enneagram 1w2), I understand the weight of high expectations, the pressure to please, and the fear of falling short. But I also know firsthand that it’s possible to find relief from that inner tension—and to begin relating to yourself with more compassion, steadiness, and ease.
Coping skills and stress management techniques can be a helpful start, but real transformation goes deeper. It means getting curious about the parts of yourself that feel messy, hidden, or hard to love. It means learning to hold space for all of you—with insight, acceptance, and new ways of relating. If that’s the kind of growth you’re seeking, I’d be honored to support you.
It’s Possible to Feel Calmer, Kinder, and More Whole Inside
How I work
Helping clients feel seen, safe, and truly understood is at the heart of everything I do. I take my relationships with clients seriously and put care into creating a space that’s nonjudgmental, open-minded, and supportive.
While I do offer feedback and insight, I’m thoughtful about how I do it. I believe in being honest—but not in a way that leaves you feeling exposed or self-conscious. I aim to share reflections that feel compassionate, respectful, and useful. I often say therapy with me is like playing detective together—we’ll explore patterns, identify what’s getting in the way, and collaborate on meaningful ways forward.
My passion lies in supporting you as you step into your fullest, most grounded self—whatever that means for you. With over a decade of experience, I offer focused, practical insight and deep emotional presence. Whether we meet in person or virtually, I work to ensure that every session is a place where you can open up, process deeply, and also leave feeling steady enough to return to your day.
Clients often tell me they appreciate how I make complex ideas relatable. I love using metaphors and analogies to help things click—sometimes with a little humor mixed in to lighten heavier moments. My goal is for therapy to be not just meaningful, but also human and engaging.
Wherever you are in your journey, I’d be honored to support you. Together, we can create space for clarity, growth, and lasting change.
I might be a good fit for you if…
You want to explore your inner world with curiosity and compassion.
You’re looking for a therapist who offers both emotional attunement and practical feedback.
You’re willing to go beneath the surface to understand patterns in relationships, intimacy, or identity.
You and your partner are both willing to approach conflict with curiosity, not contempt. (Even if things feel messy right now, mutual respect and a desire to grow go a long way.)
You're ready to explore your own patterns and how they show up in the relationship—not just hoping for your partner to change.
You and your partner are both on board with couples therapy and want to be active participants in creating a healthier, more connected relationship.
You’re looking for a therapist who approaches vulnerable topics—like body image and physical intimacy—with sensitivity, warmth, and deep respect.
I might not be a good fit for you if…
You’re uncomfortable with self-reflection or resistant to discussing emotions.
You prefer a highly directive or confrontational style of therapy.
You’re seeking quick advice, solutions, or surface-level strategies without exploring deeper emotional work.
You and your partner are in a cycle of frequent conflict that involves disrespect, hostility, or emotional harm. (In these cases, I’ll refer you to a specialist who works specifically with high-conflict couples.)
You're hoping I’ll "fix" your partner, rather than explore the dynamics between you both.
You’re pursuing couples therapy, but your partner isn’t on board. (That said, I’d be happy to work with you individually to process your experience.)
You have a problem with cheesy, dad jokes.
Education and training
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Indiana Licensed Mental Health Counselor, License #39003409A, Verify
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Education Specialist in Mental Health Counseling, Indiana University
Master of Science in Counseling and Counselor Education, Indiana University
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IFS-Informed EMDR, Syzygy Institute
Intro to Internal Family Systems (IFS) for EMDR Therapists, Syzygy Institute
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Basic
Using the Science of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Individuals: Bringing Your Clients to Life and Restoring Their Ability to Live Well
Dr. Sue Johnson's Intensive Course in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): Attachment-Based Interventions for Couples in Crisis
Sex Therapy 101: An Introductory Guide for Couples Therapists
Life Purpose Coach Certification
Professional Life Coach Certification
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Why Self-Love?
“Ultimate peace comes from loving and accepting yourself. Self-love insulates you from emotional pain, loneliness, and stress. Love for yourself also helps you go into unknowns with less fear. Through loving yourself, you are able to accept that life eventually ends because you are a constant for yourself in this life and beyond.”
